I am tucked away at Two Friends right now, an outdoor cafe
in Jinja, to blog and rest. I have felt like a mama with the whole household of
boys these past two days, with Rachel visiting Kampala for the weekend. But we
are having a wonderful time of it! The younger boys and I have gotten to play
games, like Hide and Seek, Band Aid Tag, Big Mouth Bullfrog and Stop and Go
(a.k.a. Red Light Green Light since there are no stoplights in Jinja).
Equator
Last weekend, Rachel and I caught a coaster (bus) to
Kampala, Uganda’s capital. From there, we rented a private hire taxi to take us
to Uganda’s Equator Monument, which is about 2-3 hours from Jinja. We traveled southwest
through gorgeous countryside- tea and plantain and papaya fields, and villages
where men were making handmade drums.
The equator itself was positioned diagonally across the road
we were on, and there are two main monuments, one on each side of the road. We
stood on the northern and southern hemisphere of the world at the same time for
a few snaps, and then headed back through Kampala during rush hour traffic combined
with Sean Paul’s concert, and passing the king of the Buganda tribe and his grenade-launcher-protected escort on our way into the city (he is a figurehead
since there is also a Ugandan president). Picture L.A. traffic, except everyone
has forgotten basic driving rules and decides to push through the other cars
whenever possible. I was grateful to share the experience with Rachel, and we
enjoyed the day of traveling and exploring.
C.R.O. and The
Sanctuary
Last week I visited two organizations that work with street
children, and both are run by people who love Jesus. C.R.O. (Child Restoration
Outreach) is located in the main town of Jinja, and many of our boys passed
through this organization before settling with the Street Child Project. C.R.O.
is a drop-in center where street children can get an education, bathe, do
laundry, and have meals.
I saw several boys there who I previously met at Calvary
Chapel Jinja. It is powerful to know that God’s church is not limited to a
building, but made up of the people who love Jesus, and that I get to worship
Jesus alongside many of the street children I have met here.
I had a humorous time talking with the wonderful Canadian
women who currently work here, and making sure my watch did not get stolen.
Little Yeshua, a spunky boy who was only wearing a shirt, was doing his very
best to distract me as he playfully tried to lighten my load. Another boy,
Carlos, looked in my eyes and told me he saw Jesus in them, which was an
incredible encouragement as I came to C.R.O. to share God’s love through my
smile and hugs and handshakes with these children. Two boys offered Rachel and
I their porridge, which we declined, our bellies full from breakfast. It
astounded us to see their generosity, and especially with food, since some have
large bellies from malnutrition on the streets.
The Sanctuary is on the outskirts of town, and a residential
home for former street children. It was incredibly encouraging to talk with the
woman who runs the home and share stories and ideas, since her organization is
very similar to the Street Child Project. Her boys made no-bake chocolate
cookies for Rachel and I, and were listening to American rap music as we all
talked. Quite often, and I am grateful for this, God helps me forget the past
that these boys have come from, and I just see them as people- people who are
growing and learning and needing God’s love just as I do.
Times with the Boys
Little Calvin and I are fast friends now (our toddler who
was terrified of Mzungus), and he and I are delighted to see the kittens
starting to walk and exploring my room. The hens have also laid eggs, and we
had our first chick hatch this morning!
I have had a wonderful time doing art and crafts with the
house. We made thumbprint art last week with some Ed Emberly books. And last
Wednesday night, the boys were delighted to make friendship bracelets. I love
seeing them grab pink and purple for themselves, since there are no
gender-specific colors here, and bracelets are fashionable for boys. My example
“Uganda” bracelet was a hit- red, yellow, and black, the colors of the flag.
I also have gotten to share the story of Ruth with them.
This past week, we talked about how in Deuteronomy and Leviticus, God shares
rules to protect the people who were lowest in society- widows, foreigners,
orphans, and the poor. The boys enjoyed learning about Boaz, and how his love
for God makes him be even more generous than just following these rules for
Ruth. I got to encourage the boys and pray that they would be godly men who
would look after women and children and people that are mistreated by society.
These boys have already taught me so much about their
culture, and are giving me a great taste of parenting adolescent boys. They
teach me that parenting is done best on your knees, relying on God for strength
and wisdom. They teach me to consider their needs above my own, and to choose
to act in love when I don’t feel like loving since I want some time to myself.
I keep laughing about how much this role feels like being a mama, and I know that
I deeply care for these boys after just about 4 weeks here. I care about them enough
that I want to act in ways that show both grace and truth for them (John 1),
which means being consistent in discipline since I cannot stand the sin in
their lives, and listening to the Holy Spirit’s guidance for how to show them
grace and unconditional love when they have messed up again. They also remind
me that seeking and following Jesus is daily- I do not like to skip breakfast
in the morning, and see myself go spiritually hungry if I miss time with Him-
time to talk with Him and confess and share my concerns about the coming day,
and time to be in His word for truth and encouragement. It is also an
incredible comfort to realize again and again that even if my friends and
family are not here with me, I am never alone because God is ever with me. And
He has given me the gift of getting to work alongside Rachel, and getting to
build relationships with many people here.
Tomorrow I am taking a day to raft on the Nile, and will
have to see if my group chooses the Class 3 or Class 5 (waterfall-esque) rapids
for the day.
May the peace of Christ be with you all,
Lindsey ( :
Gosh Smiles. I love reading your blogs. It's great to know how to encourage you. Also, can't wait to hear what you think of rafting the Nile! I bet you love it. :)
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